Be it at stage 4 or any other stages, mum, you are our warrior, xena in our heart. You have battled cancer twice, been through 2 times of chemo, I am sure this 3rd time would be a no kick to you. You are the strongest woman in the universe and I am sure this bad cancer relapse would be just a minor setback in your life. 

This time as it may, you will lose all your hair but I am sure you will still look good and tough and remain a "no hair" beauty. We will  buy you wigs and lots of pretty hats to walk you through this "hairless" period. Once this chemo is over, be assure that youy hair will grow back and you will look better and healthier than before.

Mum, you have always been very very strong. Even stronger than anyone of us here in terms of emotions and physical health. You have all our support. You have 3 beautiful kids who will walk with you thru this painful journey. We will not give up on you so you must not admit defeat either. We will defeat this cancer monster together, as a family.

I have heard of stage 4 cancer patients who survived the ordeal and some who managed to pull a long battle, ie. 3 yrs - 5 years. I am sure you will be able to see me get married next march or even better to see your first grandchildren born. We are supposed to walk down the aisle together and this would not be complete if there is no you becos you are the most important person in my life.

Mum, stay strong, fight it with all your will power. We are with you, always and forever. Don't forget we are going to hongkong this october for your favourite goose and to see me in my wedding gown. For now, control and bear with it. Eat heathy, drink healthy and stay healthy.

For you know,

We will always always love you.