date: Thursday, September 8, 2011 @ 3:19 PM
title: Knowing he is the one
"We" have all dated. Be it a past relationship, a current one, a one that leaves you in tears up till now, a one that brings you back tons of memories be it good or bad. I have 'dated' several people since the age of 13 all the way till I am 24. Hopefully this men in my life would be the finale, the last one I will eventually walk down the aisle with.
Mr Kiang always comment that my life is filled with colors. all sorts of colors. Be it an older or younger someone, wont escape from my hands. He is such an lovable ass, but somehow I feel wad he say isnt wrong. My first "bf" that I went with was a malay. What the hell was I tinking off. Probably coming from a girls primary school, each and every different sparked a little interest in me! There was gerald, such a cutie and damn apple of eye. Hongru, so far the loongest relationship I have had. ohh, damn embarrassing! And there was big ben, no doubt very ah beng , very lazy but still he was relatively nice to me. I had Mr old man which was a blessing in disguise that nothing works out in the end or me being a bitch that I decided to leave. and nevertheless, that few " scandals" I have which I am not going to mention here in case I get screwed and fucked big time by the boyfriend here. hee!
and so, how do u know that he is the one, the one you're ready to spend your whole life with :-
(1) He understands
- he will always see your side of things. Which also means if you get upset and angry over something countless of times, he will still calm you down and makes you feel better.
(2) He shows you
Actions speaks louder than words
Men are men. They will have difficulties expressing their feelings and thoughts to you.
Yelong here I would say is the most patient and the easiest to bully bf i ever know. haha. Erm,is not any sacarsm, it is more like a compliment. He does eveything and anything for me. it's god's blessing to me. he takes bus here n there just to pack food for me. He will drop by in the morning to send me al the way to work. he wakes up early makes breakfast for me. I sleep while he cooked lunch/dinner. temprorary or not I dont know, I will just enjoy this for as long as it can be becos I know nothing is forever.
(3)He listens to you/ he tells you.
Hearing him say ' I love you' and knowing he mean eveyr word is proof that he is the one.
He is genuinely interested in whatever you says, not trying to put you off all the times. he gives you his undivided attention and not just "yes".. "no" .. " hmm"
Guosheng is one madfuck who puts me all the times and whatever I said to me, he thought was a pure joke. such an ass,literally.
(4)He compliments you
he notices when you change something about your apperance. He appreciates and tells you that you look good when you takes time to dress up. he looks you up and down telling you how beautiful you're in a non-lecherous way.
I always/everyday complained-whined to yelong saying I am damn fat,my hair is outrageous, I look horrible in this or that clothes. But is very heart warming to hear stuff like " no la, you're not" when you know obviously he is lying. or rather he takes e effort to "lie' so that you wont feel bad about yourself. Sad fact is, becos of his "dishonesty" , yours truly here has gained tons of kilograms.
5)He is happy around you.
Smile and laughter revolves around the both of you. He rather spend time with you than his friends.
I am confident enough to say, Yes he is. Look at me.. my nonsense and behaviour, no reason he will not be happy. haha.
6) He takes care of you
He is my guardian angel. he takes care of me like a baby and nurse me back to health.
7) His friends and family likes you.
you can guage how a man feels about you from the way his circle of friends and family treat you. My friends are his friends so we are generally comfortable with it. His family and mine often include parties in outing and family dinners. They hold "us" in high regards, and have ' embraced' you like their own. Good sign.
8) He asks for your opinion.
very important he that he considers your feelings and opinion among anyone else. He asked for your advice, considers it and make good use of it. when important decisions are at stakes, he do not just go ahead and do what he tinks is right.
mr Kiang here always seeks my opinion, cos he know he wil end up dead meat if he decides to do something that I do not like. Give and take. haha.
9)He is interested in what you do.
Glad to see my another half engaging in something that I like. Mr kiang here kayaks with me, sun tanned with me and do whatever he doesnt like to do ( which I like) just to spend that quality time with me.
10)He makes you feel special
He is the kind that keeps the flames burning. Bringing you flowers and breakfast are gesture how important and how much he cares. But that doesnt mean, I only want to receive flowers only on Valtentines day =.=".
If he is always going out his ways to makes you feel exceptionally hold on tight, the man is worth is worth keeping.
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